Thursday, February 5, 2009
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Snow in the summer by Sayadaw U Jotika
Loneliness does not come from having no-one around oneself,but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views that others find inadmissible.
If a man knows more than other people, he becomes lonely. But loneliness is not necessarily inimical to companionship, for no-one is more sensitive to companionship than the lonely man, and companionship thrives only when each individual remembers his/her inidividualty and does not identify him/herself with others.
I don't want judgement; I want understanding. I am also not perfect.
I'm also a human being.I'm not trying to be somebody. I just try my best to understand whatever is happening in my life, in my mind, in my heart, No name and no fame; when i die nothing will remain.
If you can be mindful when you are sick you will learn something very deep and meaningful. You will see how lonely you are and how meaningless everything is. When the worst of the worst happens we will be really alone.
When you think it is impossible to be mindful, that is the time when it is most important to be mindful.
If you understand your mind, most of your problems will disappear because most of the problem are mind-made -- they have no reality outside your mind.
The mind is a great magician: It creates suffering and it suffers; it creates pleasure and it enjoys; it is bitten by a snake which is its own creation and suffers the effect of the poison.
Do not distrub yourself by thinking the whole of yourlife.
If a man knows more than other people, he becomes lonely. But loneliness is not necessarily inimical to companionship, for no-one is more sensitive to companionship than the lonely man, and companionship thrives only when each individual remembers his/her inidividualty and does not identify him/herself with others.
I don't want judgement; I want understanding. I am also not perfect.
I'm also a human being.I'm not trying to be somebody. I just try my best to understand whatever is happening in my life, in my mind, in my heart, No name and no fame; when i die nothing will remain.
If you can be mindful when you are sick you will learn something very deep and meaningful. You will see how lonely you are and how meaningless everything is. When the worst of the worst happens we will be really alone.
When you think it is impossible to be mindful, that is the time when it is most important to be mindful.
If you understand your mind, most of your problems will disappear because most of the problem are mind-made -- they have no reality outside your mind.
The mind is a great magician: It creates suffering and it suffers; it creates pleasure and it enjoys; it is bitten by a snake which is its own creation and suffers the effect of the poison.
Do not distrub yourself by thinking the whole of yourlife.
Labels: Buddhism, Buddhist Talks, Quotes, Sayadaw U JoTika, Snow, Summer
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
AwareNess By SaYaDaw U JoTiKa!

I have no parents.
I make the heavens and earth my parents.
havens and earth => nature
is like myanmar proverbs
"kan tar lin ami,kan tar lin apha"
karma is ur mother,karma is ur father.
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I have no home.
I make awareness my home.
"awareness is the home for the mind,if u dun ve awareness then u dun ve home for ur mind,ur mind will be fooling around"
u got angry and u notice it,n control it then there won't be any big problems
if u get angry and didn't notice of it then the anger is started burning inside little by little but still u can control of it ... then if it happens 2nd time third time then ur anger has growth and can be explode anytime for anyproblems ...
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I have no life or dealth.
I make the tides of breathing my life and death.
it means phyit pyat " ar nar pa nar shu chin = win ti htwat ti "
ppl work hard to be able to eat delicious meals in life ,to live , wear ...
only when he/she is going to die he think that he had live his life for others ... for the things that is not permanent ...
read the first book or u will not have another chance to read it at all .
u'll learn lessons.u are enrolled in a full time informal school called life.
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I have no divine power.
I make honesty my divine power.
it means honesty is the real treasure ...
buddha said "be honest,be very very honest"
lie will never satisfy ur mind ... (guilty)
only the truth will give u happiness ...
without honestly there is no real growth .
without honestly there is no freedom.
so u ve to be honest when u do meditation ... if u lie then u won be able to do it for long time ...
will follow suffering ...
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I have no friend.
I make my mind my friend.
most ppl are the enemy of their own mind ...
they drink smoke they do what they should not and think that they are doing this becuz they love themself ...
so if ur mind is frocing u to do things that u shouldn't then that is ur enemy ...
all the bad things like anger,greedyness,pride,jealousy,doubt and so on ...
are "KiLayTa" ur enemy ...
if u try to look at ur anger then it will disappear ...
like if u look at other person coldly and calmly then that person will less likely to look at u ...
so if u got angry try to look it coldly and calmly ...
if u look that anger as "my anger" then the anger will grow ...
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I have no enemy.
I make carelessness my enemy.
it means not having awareness is my enemy ...
everyone ve talent hidden inside , just make it grow ...
dun be upset for the things that u can't do,
but look for the things that u can do ...
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I have no armour.
I make benevolence my armour.
"thu ta par kaung kyo lo lar chin sait go "tan kyat kar" ta phwe lote htar tal "
if u are kind ,love and wish other for the best of the best then u are in the safe zone ...
u won't be scare of anything ...
buddha said "help urself,respect urself"
"mimi ti tar lin koe kwal ar htar yar phit ti"
if u go around to the ppl who has no anger,greedyness ... and peace man
u ll also feel peaceful ...
eg.if u go under the tree u will be under it shadows.
if u go and sit near the lake u ll feel the coldness.
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I have no castle.
I make immovable mind my castle.
" ma lote shar ma yay yaing tae sait go "ye tite" aphit lote htar bar tal "
buddha said "what we believe we become"
"sait say ya saung tal"
if u can control ur mind u will be able to live happily.
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I have no sword.
I make absence of self my sword.
"att-ta ma shi chin go tar lin lat-nat aphit lote htar tal"
"unselfishness is my sword"
i ll stick with unselfishness even if i ve different kinds of obsticles or any bad karma
the path of spiritual growth is a path of life-long learning.
make living by what u give,share ...
indeed there is no greater satisfaction than that of being an expert of really knowing what we are doing
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all of these above are from the SaYaDaw U Jo Ti Ka Or U Zaw Ti Ka book ...
the best quotes and words that i prefer and dot dot dot ...
Labels: Awareness, Buddhism, Buddhist Talks, Quotes, Sayadaw U JoTika
The Present by Spencer Johnson

"The most valuable present in your life is the present"
Be in the present
When u want to be happy and successful
Focus on what is right now
Use ur purpose to respond
To what is important now
Learn from the past
When u want to make the present better than the past
Look at what happened in the past
Learn something valuable from it
Do things differently in the present
Plan for the future
When u want to make the future better than the present
See what a wonderful future would look like
Make plans to help it happen
Put ur plan into action in the present
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Some other valuable words
From the present
Success is something we all define for ourselves at different stages of ourlives.
Success is progressing toward whatever u think is important
The more u look at what is wrong the less energy n confidence u have.
So,when u find urself in the bad situation,it's very important to look for wat is right.even if it is hard
to find.Then appreciate it and bulid on it.
Wat if the present is very painful,like experiencing the loss of a loved one ?
It is important to experience painful situations and learn from them rather than try to distract urself with something else.
Pain in the present,like everything else,is constantly changing.It will come and go.
When u stay fully in the present and have felt the pain,and feel drained by it,u can begin to look for what is right,and bulid on it.
Begun to appreciate what is waiting out there for u to discover.
It is hard to let go of the past if u have not learned from the past.
As soon as u learn and let go u improve the present
No one can predict or control the future
However the more u plan for wat u want to see happen the less anxious u are in the present
and the more the future is knwon to u.
The importand thing is to do something every day,even if u think it is a small thing,to help make that
wonderful future happen.
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if u find it useful for u and worth for u then wish u can share with others too ...
"Every moment is another chance,so waiting for the chances is loosing ur chances!"
Labels: Life, Quotes, Spencer Johnson, The Present, Wise And Inspiration Reading, Work
Monday, December 15, 2008
Buddha Or God ???
I'm Not A God Not I Believe In God. I'm A Perfected Human Being,Who Believes In Man.
Buddha Is Not A God Nor He Believed In God!
What does "buddha" mean?
Buddha is often misunderstood as the name of an historical figure from India; but this is not the case. Buddha is a principle, not a person. Buddha actually means "awake." When asked, "Are you a god?" Gautama, the person who became a buddha way back when in India replied, "No." "Then what are you?" the man asked again. Gautama's answer was, "I am awake."
Nowadays many statues of buddhas are common, and they can easily be mistaken as signs of polytheism. But all these images are not portraits of superheroes each with their own "superpersonality" that exist somewhere out of this atmosphere, deigning to involve themselves selectively in the affairs of this world. Rather, they are symbolic presentations of qualities of "awakeness."
But "awakeness" only means something in relation to its opposite: "asleepness." It seems Gautama was using this analogy as a way to touch upon the experience of knowing what a dream is. When we wake up in the same bed we remember laying down in hours before, we decide that everything previous was a kind of hallucination. This decision actually changes the context of everything that happened to us while we were dreaming, no matter how drastic, dramatic, horrific or beatific. All of a sudden, we somehow discover a kind of perspective.
Here's an example. A woman who has never been pregnant wakes from a dream of giving birth to a stillborn child, and the sorrow she felt all of a sudden changes from being so real to seeming so real. And her recognition is not something someone else decided for her, it is a conclusion based on her own recognizance. This also seems to be another fundamental aspect of what we could describe as "awakeness:" it is not manufactured through effort or through a formula, but through a completely personal and thorough deep inquiry.
If we were to really try and describe "awakeness," how would we start? We might start by describing it in three ways: clarity, luminosity and openness. But within these three aspects there also seems to be an endless flow of nuances to our experience; like a single light that hits a prism to refract into the spectrum of a rainbow. These nuances are the various qualities of our inner world and outer world, our thoughts and sensations as well as the sense objects that we encounter.
Like the rainbow and these nuances, the variety of buddhas appear to us like various reflections we might see in a true mirror, one that is completely clean with us gazing bright and wide eyed. Depending on who we think we are or what is going on with us at the time, we will probably recognize certain qualities in our reflection; we will notice different things about ourselves. After all, there are many to choose from no matter how often we decide to look. This is the principle involved in representations of buddhas: as the human experience is infinitely nuanced, there are numerous images, implements, colors, faces, heads and arms that appear in the iconography. But although the qualities might accentuate different aspects of awakeness, the images are all just that: a variety of expressions of the true nature of every sentient being.
Labels: Buddha, Buddha Words, Buddhism, Buddhist Talks, God, Quotes
Buddha Thoughtful Or Meaningful Quotes
A dog is not considered a good dog because he is a good barker. A man is not considered a good man because he is a good talker.
All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him.
All things appear and disappear because of the concurrence of causes and conditions. Nothing ever exists entirely alone; everything is in relation to everything else.
All wrong-doing arises because of mind. If mind is transformed can wrong-doing remain?
Ambition is like love, impatient both of delays and rivals.
An idea that is developed and put into action is more important than an idea that exists only as an idea.
An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.
Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.
Better than a thousand hollow words, is one word that brings peace.
Chaos is inherent in all compounded things. Strive on with diligence.
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind.
Ennui has made more gamblers than avarice, more drunkards than thirst, and perhaps as many suicides as despair.
Every human being is the author of his own health or disease.
Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule.
He is able who thinks he is able.
He who experiences the unity of life sees his own Self in all beings, and all beings in his own Self, and looks on everything with an impartial eye.
He who loves 50 people has 50 woes; he who loves no one has no woes.
Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship.
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
However many holy words you read,However many you speak,What good will they do youIf you do not act on upon them?
I do not believe in a fate that falls on men however they act; but I do believe in a fate that falls on them unless they act.
I never see what has been done; I only see what remains to be done.
In a controversy the instant we feel anger we have already ceased striving for the truth, and have begun striving for ourselves.
In the sky, there is no distinction of east and west; people create distinctions out of their own minds and then beleive them to be true.
It is a man's own mind, not his enemy or foe, that lures him to evil ways.
It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell.
It is better to travel well than to arrive.
Just as a candle cannot burn without fire, men cannot live without a spiritual life.
Just as treasures are uncovered from the earth, so virtue appears from good deeds, and wisdom appears from a pure and peaceful mind.
To walk safely through the maze of human life, one needs the light of wisdom and the guidance of virtue.
Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didn't learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn't learn a little, at least we didn't get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn't die; so, let us all be thankful.
On life's journey faith is nourishment, virtuous deeds are a shelter, wisdom is the light by day and right mindfulness is the protection by night.
If a man lives a pure life, nothing can destroy him.
Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.
Teach this triple truth to all: A generous heart, kind speech, and a life of service and compassion are the things which renew humanity.
The foot feels the foot when it feels the ground.
The only real failure in life is not to be true to the best one knows.
The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, nor to worry about the future, but to live the present moment wisely and earnestly.
The tongue like a sharp knife... Kills without drawing blood.
The virtues, like the Muses, are always seen in groups. A good principle was never found solitary in any breast.
The wise ones fashioned speech with their thought, sifting it as grain is sifted through a sieve.
The world, indeed, is like a dream and the treasures of the world are an alluring mirage! Like the apparent distances in a picture, things have no reality in themselves, but they are like heat haze.
There are only two mistakes one can make along the road to truth; not going all the way, and not starting.
There is nothing more dreadful than the habit of doubt. Doubt separates people. It is a poison that disintegrates friendships and breaks up pleasant relations. It is a thorn that irritates and hurts; it is a sword that kills.
Those who are free of resentful thoughts surely find peace.
Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.
Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth.
To be idle is a short road to death and to be diligent is a way of life; foolish people are idle, wise people are diligent.
To enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to one's family, to bring peace to all, one must first discipline and control one's own mind.
If a man can control his mind he can find the way to Enlightenment, and all wisdom and virtue will naturally come to him.
To live a pure unselfish life, one must count nothing as one's own in the midst of abundance.
Unity can only be manifested by the Binary. Unity itself and the idea of Unity are already two.
Virtue is persecuted more by the wicked than it is loved by the good.
We are formed and molded by our thoughts. Those whose minds are shaped by selfless thoughts give joy when they speak or act. Joy follows them like a shadow that never leaves them.
We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.
What is the appropriate behavior for a man or a woman in the midst of this world, where each person is clinging to his piece of debris? What's the proper salutation between people as they pass each other in this flood?
What we think, we become.
Whatever words we utter should be chosen with care for people will hear them and be influenced by them for good or ill.
When one has the feeling of dislike for evil, when one feels tranquil, one finds pleasure in listening to good teachings; when one has these feelings and appreciates them, one is free of fear.
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